Life Skills for Youth: Ages 5-8 (Grades K-3)

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Head


Thinking

Learning to learn
  • is curious; ask questions
  • has many ideas
  • is creative
  • is active learner; learns by "doing"
  • uses senses
  • defines or classifies things by their use
  • learns how to do the process
  • learns to observe
Decision making
  • explores values, beliefs, and attitudes
  • accepts responsibility for consequences of personal actions
  • usually has good judgment
  • identifies alternatives; able to choose among a few selected alternatives
Problem solving
  • seeks solutions to problems
  • is able to consider a few selected alternatives
Critical thinking
  • asks questions before, during, and after acquiring information
Service learning
  • gains information about the community and its people

Managing

Goal setting
  • may complete simple projects
  • explores possibilities; more important than reaching a goal
Planning/organizing
  • does simple sorting and categorizing
Wise use of resources
  • learns value of money
  • learns to make change
Record keeping
  • learns to write
  • begins to sort and classify
Resiliency
  • is aware of life changes; has experienced or knows of others
    who have had changes in family, moved to new home, illness, etc.
  • chronic stressful conditions challenge developmental tasks
  • may want to discuss situation and gain assurance

Life Skills for Youth: Ages 5-8 (Grades K-3)

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Heart


Relating

Communication
  • is outgoing, talkative, carries on conversation
  • engages in group discussion
  • has selective listening
Cooperation
  • has cooperative group experiences
  • likes cooperation, not competition
Social skills
  • has interactions that revolve around play
  • learns from and with others in small groups
  • expands circle beyond family
  • needs individual attention
  • begins to learn good manners
Conflict resolution
  • is learning to get along with others
Accepting differences
  • appreciates differences
  • may reflect parents' values
Concern for others
  • shows caring concern toward peers
Empathy
  • is aware of differences in situations
  • demonstrates empathic behavior towards peers
Sharing
  • is learning to share toys
  • is learning to share the time of an adult
Nurturing relationships
  • has "best friend"
  • falls "in love" with teacher
  • is still dependent upon parents

Life Skills for Youth: Ages 5-8 (Grades K-3)

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Hands


Caring

Community service/volunteering
  • is usually willing to help with appropriate tasks
Leadership
  • learns to be a group member
  • learns to listen when other speak
Responsible citizenship
  • learns salute to the flag and patriotic songs
  • may become familiar with simple historical stories about country
Contributes to group
  • is aware of work done at home and in the community effort
  • is responsible for household chores
  • develops cooperative skills

Working

Marketable skills
  • is ready for school
  • gets exposure to a variety of job roles in community
  • learns math, reading, speaking, manual dexterity
  • role-plays a variety of career choices
  • takes field trips to explore careers; processes information with adults
Teamwork
  • understands children's and parents' roles as essential to the family
  • unit and part of a system
  • some are more ready for working together than others
Self-motivated
  • learns about time and being on time; punctuality

Life Skills for Youth: Ages 5-8 (Grades K-3)

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Health


Being

Self-esteem
  • is sensitive to criticism
  • has strong desire for affection, attention, and acceptance from adults
  • understands self
  • is becoming more independent
Self-responsibility
  • accepts responsibility for own actions
Character
  • learns respect for self and others and belongings
  • learns consequences of being dishonest/not telling the truth
Appropriate expression
  • recognizes own feelings
  • of feelings
  • understands feelings are OK
Self-discipline
  • develops self-control
  • tries many roles in imaginary play
  • has rituals and routines

Living

Healthy lifestyle
  • is able to make healthy diet choices
  • reflects family and personal tastes
  • is mastering physical skills including coordination, balance, and strength
Stress management
  • is aware of stressful situations
  • is aware of own reactions to stress
Prevention of disease
  • is aware of personal symptoms of illness
  • knows of family practices
Personal safety
  • learns appropriate personal responses to danger
  • applies information to situations

Other Age Groups

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Timothy J. Rollins, Department of Agricultural and Extension Education, The Pennsylvania State University.

Adapted from: Hendricks, P. A. (1996, Nov). Developing youth curriculum using the targeting life skills model. Ames: Iowa State University, University Extension.

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